Accept The Challenges—Never Get Comfortable With Failure

 

I started running as a high school sophomore (back then 9th graders weren’t at the high school). Back in my 30’s and 40’s when I was doing triathlon and distance running, I was running a whopping 60 to 70 miles a week, which included two to three double workouts, and a 13-mile long run on Sundays.

Nowadays, I probably run no more than 20 miles a week, with distance runs in the 30- to 40-minute range and 90% of my runs are on a treadmill. 

As a sophomore in high school, the 5:00-mile barrier was somewhat of a rite of passage. It was my goal that whole season, and I finally achieved it in one of my last track races that year, running 4:50. I continued to PR every year after that, so sub-5:00 came with the territory.

Back in 2020 and the COVID days, I decided to try to break the 6-minute mile mark. At 56, I wanted to see if “I could still push myself.” I ended up running a 5:42. After that I set my sites on Boston for 1 last race.

When it comes to a challenge, there are 3 important questions you must ask yourself:

1.       How do you manage the logistics of the challenge?

2.       Is there a specific time of year, place (event), or people you do it with?

3.       Do you have a plan for if/when you won’t beat your goal anymore? (This one hurts, but there will come a time when your body can’t do what your mind thinks it can).

This is how I approached any challenge:

If I break the barrier, great! If I don’t achieve it, I learn from what went wrong so next time I’m better prepared. And when it comes to the point that I can’t do it anymore, I’ll find a different way to challenge myself and it probably will have nothing to do with racing or running a certain time.

My advice to those who still seek the challenge of racing or goal based running challenges--welcome failure. Failure can provide you with a new perspective: It taught me to be thankful for my successes instead of regretful about what could have gone differently.

BUT and this is a big BUT….never get comfortable with failure! Learn from it, but don’t accept it!

Failure and success are 2 different paths that sometimes intersect.  If you keep doing down the path of failure, it’s time to turn around.

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